On 7/2/2008 2:19:38 PM, intricate wrote: You're making me want to ask my current "relationship" questions now... brings up so much of what i'm feeling, mostly confusion. Do i need my own thread?? lol

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On 7/2/2008 1:38:33 PM, blackwidow wrote: well the situation is different, i didn't want to commit and he didn't want to be friends till i was ready. but now that i think about it, the more loser i meet the more i miss him. i don't think we hurt each other, actually i think he hurt ME more than i hurt him, but i know he was trying to hurt me because he felt hurt i wouldn't commit. in any case, i've sent him a text message and an email telling him i miss him, and he didn't respond. he probably hates me! And i feel awful.

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On 7/2/2008 1:57:07 PM, Cravey wrote: It's a super-duper fine line between being truly wanting him to know you're still interested.. and being seen as a whiny 'lil stalker.. I'd say.. one more message, letting him know it's the last message.. telling him that you're ready to try again. - if he is.. and then leave it up to him.. if he doesn't respond under those circumstances, you pretty much have your answer..

On 7/2/2008 2:26:15 PM, li sa wrote: ah I see, there's more... the "last" message thing... try not to say this is my LAST message... guys HATE ultimatums. I'd say something sweet like I miss you. If you're free anytime soon and you'd like to get together - I'm here. and if he doesn't act on that, I'd give up.

On 7/2/2008 2:27:05 PM, li sa wrote: nevermind me, i'm behind as usual

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On 7/2/2008 2:19:38 PM, intricate wrote: You're making me want to ask my current "relationship" questions now... brings up so much of what i'm feeling, mostly confusion. Do i need my own thread?? lol

On 7/2/2008 2:19:38 PM, intricate wrote: You're making me want to ask my current "relationship" questions now... brings up so much of what i'm feeling, mostly confusion. Do i need my own thread?? lol

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On 7/2/2008 2:28:00 PM, Cravey wrote: you're typing for two.. we forgive..

On 7/2/2008 2:22:14 PM, li sa wrote: no i always date them WAY past their expiry date then by the time i realize it's over... it's WAY overdue... and i'm done. it's hard p. but try to see it for what it is. sometimes things get off to a bad start and they deserve another shot. but the core of who they are will never change. so if you can't deal with them, best to move along and stay busy and try to forget. no use in punishing yourselves with round 2... or 3 or 4

On 7/2/2008 2:30:18 PM, li sa wrote: worse... i was at my OB's office. i waited an hour and a half for my appt. then 10 minutes after he saw me he got called to a birth. shucks.

On 7/2/2008 2:25:28 PM, nyla princess wrote: Wow-- are you my twin?

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On 7/2/2008 2:31:16 PM, blackwidow wrote: thats a very true statement, and its the same advice i give my friends, but in this situation...its one of those things if i don't at least TRY, i'll live my life thinking "what if". he would probably also agree that we were SO happy together, i have no freaking idea where things went wrong. i admit that i wasn't in it 100%, which is why i screwed things up the first time around, but now that i'm ready, i don't even get the chance. kind of sucks.

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On 7/2/2008 2:31:18 PM, Cravey wrote: if there's any good news there - it's that it wasn't your birth he was called to..

On 7/2/2008 2:26:15 PM, li sa wrote: ah I see, there's more... the "last" message thing... try not to say this is my LAST message... guys HATE ultimatums. I'd say something sweet like I miss you. If you're free anytime soon and you'd like to get together - I'm here. and if he doesn't act on that, I'd give up.

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On 7/2/2008 2:34:55 PM, blackwidow wrote: yeah you're right, i'm not trying to piss him off more by saying this is the last message, knowing me...it won't be anywa. my text message was simple...it just said "i miss you so much" my email was simple too..."i know i said i'll never contact you, but its so hard for me to get you out of my mind, i miss you so much" and that was it....no response.

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On 7/2/2008 2:34:55 PM, blackwidow wrote: yeah you're right, i'm not trying to piss him off more by saying this is the last message, knowing me...it won't be anywa. my text message was simple...it just said "i miss you so much" my email was simple too..."i know i said i'll never contact you, but its so hard for me to get you out of my mind, i miss you so much" and that was it....no response.

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On 7/2/2008 2:34:55 PM, blackwidow wrote: yeah you're right, i'm not trying to piss him off more by saying this is the last message, knowing me...it won't be anywa. my text message was simple...it just said "i miss you so much" my email was simple too..."i know i said i'll never contact you, but its so hard for me to get you out of my mind, i miss you so much" and that was it....no response.

On 7/2/2008 2:38:16 PM, li sa wrote: do i know this one?