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li sa
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On 5/8/2008 9:35:11 AM, Sashy wrote:
i know. last night when i got upset i yelled at him and said "why did we just have sex if ur getting married" and he got up and pulled me to get up and leave. because i said that. To me, if hes getting married and knows it...hes basically engaged...so him and i doing anything more like that, would be cheating...and wrong. And in the long run ya i would be the problem once she moved here....he told me once they get married and she moves shes gonna live with her cousin or something...but what if that changes, what if they get closer? ive never seen Jamaica call her, but ive seen her call him lots...what if its a money transaction for him, but for her its more?
its so confusing...uhgfdhgfkhogajrtngbvk,xdrgnj!!!!
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he's nuts... she'll have him by the balls
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:37:04 AM
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Shaun_Blaze
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On 5/8/2008 9:33:44 AM, li sa wrote:
you're thinking with your heart, and you should.
bottom line his inconsideration as a friend is pure crap.
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THAT'S what concerns me most.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:37:13 AM
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tripple b
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On 5/8/2008 9:35:11 AM, Sashy wrote:
i know. last night when i got upset i yelled at him and said "why did we just have sex if ur getting married" and he got up and pulled me to get up and leave. because i said that. To me, if hes getting married and knows it...hes basically engaged...so him and i doing anything more like that, would be cheating...and wrong. And in the long run ya i would be the problem once she moved here....he told me once they get married and she moves shes gonna live with her cousin or something...but what if that changes, what if they get closer? ive never seen Jamaica call her, but ive seen her call him lots...what if its a money transaction for him, but for her its more?
its so confusing...uhgfdhgfkhogajrtngbvk,xdrgnj!!!!
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EXACTLY.... maybe it is MORE for her.
But what seems shady to me is... if she has a cousin here... and someone can obviously afford to pay him to marry her... WHY OH WHY doesn't her family member who is already here in Canada just sponsor her to come to Canada?
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:40:48 AM
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li sa
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On 5/8/2008 9:37:13 AM, Shaun_Blaze wrote:
THAT'S what concerns me most.
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frig.... all he had to say was, Sash... I've been presented with this opportunity and I want to know what you think?
the fact that he decided and feels inconsequential shows me he's either:
a) an asshole
b) doesn't care all that much about her
any normal person would realize how this affects her.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:40:52 AM
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Sashy
Toronto
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GUESS WHO JUST CALLED ME AGAIN!? ****!
And he yelled and got mad because im said and said I knew it i knew....
he just doesnt even respect how i feel.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:43:41 AM
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Shaun_Blaze
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On 5/8/2008 9:40:52 AM, li sa wrote:
frig.... all he had to say was, Sash... I've been presented with this opportunity and I want to know what you think?
the fact that he decided and feels inconsequential shows me he's either:
a) an asshole
b) doesn't care all that much about her
any normal person would realize how this affects her.
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That's basically what I'm saying if you read between my lines. But I like to sugarcoat things a little bit when I'm dealing with someone in obvious pain who cares a lot about this guy.
You have to understand -- Sash has a very laid-back, nonchalant attitude about things. So the fact that she's poured her heart into something or someone, makes her pain all the worse.
So I didn't want to be TOO cynical here. There's always the slim chance that he was just too chicken-shtt to tell her. Which would be option "c"
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:44:18 AM
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tripple b
Toronto
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On 5/8/2008 9:43:41 AM, Sashy wrote:
GUESS WHO JUST CALLED ME AGAIN!? ****!
And he yelled and got mad because im said and said I knew it i knew....
he just doesnt even respect how i feel.
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fuk him.
He is starting to sound just like my ex.
This is what you do with someone like that:
*Tell him you want nothing to do with him.
*Tell him to stop contacting you.
*Tell him grow up.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:45:44 AM
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Shaun_Blaze
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On 5/8/2008 9:43:41 AM, Sashy wrote:
GUESS WHO JUST CALLED ME AGAIN!? ****!
And he yelled and got mad because im said and said I knew it i knew....
he just doesnt even respect how i feel.
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Again, I'm sorry to hear that.
But think of it THIS way:
You're a young, BEAUTIFUL, ambitious, caring woman. It's HIS LOSS that he doesn't allow himself to take the time to understand your feelings.
HIS LOSS!!!
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:46:00 AM
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li sa
Windsor
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On 5/8/2008 9:43:41 AM, Sashy wrote:
GUESS WHO JUST CALLED ME AGAIN!? ****!
And he yelled and got mad because im said and said I knew it i knew....
he just doesnt even respect how i feel.
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who the hell does he think he is to yell at you?
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:46:45 AM
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Sashy
Toronto
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AND AGAIN! ahhhhhhhhh
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:47:37 AM
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droopy dra...
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I'd be skeptical if this guy has tried to lie in that kind of magnitude already.
He may not even have cancer. But I'm not there.
Did you know Jamacia had the highest murder rate per capita last year.
I would close our borders to Jamacian immigrants.
And report this guy to immigration, he's breaking the law.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:48:38 AM
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tripple b
Toronto
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On 5/8/2008 9:47:37 AM, Sashy wrote:
AND AGAIN! ahhhhhhhhh
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I hope you are not answering..
Dont' answer.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:48:58 AM
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droopy dra...
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On 5/8/2008 9:46:45 AM, li sa wrote:
who the hell does he think he is to yell at you?
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He's probably upset his bubble burst. He's a leech......call immigration.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:49:19 AM
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Shaun_Blaze
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On 5/8/2008 9:46:45 AM, li sa wrote:
who the hell does he think he is to yell at you?
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That's effed up.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:49:49 AM
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tripple b
Toronto
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:52:50 AM
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LIFE IS SO UNPREDICTABLE...BAH!
