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Sashy
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On 5/13/2008 8:21:39 AM, tripple b wrote:
ps) I hope you didn't answer any of his questions.
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nope. i basically told him in a nice way, that its not his business.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 8:59:39 AM
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Sashy
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On 5/13/2008 8:55:47 AM, li sa wrote:
if you answered his questions I will stop feeling sorry for you at this very second.
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i did not. don't worry.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 8:59:58 AM
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Sashy
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On 5/13/2008 8:56:33 AM, frrrisky wrote:
doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship. he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
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yup, thats what everyone is saying now...he basically wants me until this whole illegal marriage thing happens...and even tho he says he supports me in finding someone and such...whenever i say im chillin with a guy...before this fight and now...or a date like last night, he gets all suspicious and wants to know everything...
weird.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:01:22 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:01:22 AM, Sashy wrote:
yup, thats what everyone is saying now...he basically wants me until this whole illegal marriage thing happens...and even tho he says he supports me in finding someone and such...whenever i say im chillin with a guy...before this fight and now...or a date like last night, he gets all suspicious and wants to know everything...
weird.
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usually when the other person asks those kinds of questions it's because they think you're doing the same thing they are (messing around). they don't realize that not everyone is screwy like they are. you deserve better, he's not even friend material. he dissed you and friends don't diss friends.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:04:31 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:04:31 AM, frrrisky wrote:
usually when the other person asks those kinds of questions it's because they think you're doing the same thing they are (messing around). they don't realize that not everyone is screwy like they are. you deserve better, he's not even friend material. he dissed you and friends don't diss friends.
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been there.... you're so right
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:05:29 AM
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Sashy
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On 5/13/2008 9:04:31 AM, frrrisky wrote:
usually when the other person asks those kinds of questions it's because they think you're doing the same thing they are (messing around). they don't realize that not everyone is screwy like they are. you deserve better, he's not even friend material. he dissed you and friends don't diss friends.
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yup, i completely agree. He just wants me to his self until this plan hatches in Jan. and hes all BS when he says he wants me to see others too...cuz of the obvious that happens when i even say im just going to hang with a male friend...i dunno. bizarre.
but i have to admit. i still care for him. even at work we are kinda back to normal and he bouhgt my lunch on my lunch break yesterday. i dunno.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:07:07 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:07:07 AM, Sashy wrote:
yup, i completely agree. He just wants me to his self until this plan hatches in Jan. and hes all BS when he says he wants me to see others too...cuz of the obvious that happens when i even say im just going to hang with a male friend...i dunno. bizarre.
but i have to admit. i still care for him. even at work we are kinda back to normal and he bouhgt my lunch on my lunch break yesterday. i dunno.
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caring just means you're human and genuine. while you deal with the hurt now it will go away soon. by the time he realizes how he messed up months or years from now it will take him months or years to overcome his stupidity.
you're ahead even if it feels like you're behind. sounds like you are "back" together in a twisted way. he wants you at his disposal without a committment. it's simple so if you're ok with that then go for it.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:16:40 AM
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i think i'll stay single for the rest of my life, its so much easier these days, only got 4 more days left with my girly type wifey person, sad but we knew this was coming already
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:18:40 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:16:40 AM, frrrisky wrote:
caring just means you're human and have and genuine. while you deal with the hurt now it will go away soon. by the time he realizes how he messed up months or years from now it will take him months or years to overcome his stupidity.
you're ahead even if it feels like you're behind. sounds like you are "back" together in a twisted way. he wants you at his disposal without a committment. it's simple so if you're ok with that then go for it.
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Well supposely we were never together. That's from his mouth. But trust me, at work i just felt i had to be civil...i work closely with him. But it got kinda back to normal yesterday which is good for work sake and myself at work...but ya, buying me lunch...a tea in the morning...i dunno...he use to do that here and there, but i guess he feels its ok now. cuz out of work, i dont call him anymore since this, only once cuz i found out something happened and got worried, but after that, i havent and he didnt for a few days, but yesterday, he calls and it felt normal.
Right now, i dont mind being friendly at work. and if he calls ill talk. but hanging out with him...especially at his house, is a HUGE no. Cuz obviously something with happen...and i cannot go back to that.
...i dunno...im just having trouble dealing with it all.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:20:55 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:20:55 AM, Sashy wrote:
...i dunno...im just having trouble dealing with it all.
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it all goes back to morals and values. people that don't have the same as you do you will never get. they don't change and only drag you to their level. one thing i will say on his defense is that we only got your side of the story. he may have a different one.
but if you give in then lisa and gang will kick your ass anyway.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:27:21 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:25:40 AM, nath jones wrote:
lol yeah but there may be some problems with the language barriers, thou i suppose then there wouldnt be any arguments
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you mean a non-speaking wife is a bad thing? ok well there are adult education classes that will teach them to say yes, ok, sure, anytime, etc....
this i'm sure will make me popular with the ladies. NOT
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:29:15 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:29:15 AM, frrrisky wrote:
you mean a non-speaking wife is a bad thing? ok well there are adult education classes that will teach them to say yes, ok, sure, anytime, etc....
this i'm sure will make me popular with the ladies. NOT
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i just tend to do what im told, its easier that way, i like being the little bitch.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:30:33 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:27:21 AM, frrrisky wrote:
it all goes back to morals and values. people that don't have the same as you do you will never get. they don't change and only drag you to their level. one thing i will say on his defense is that we only got your side of the story. he may have a different one.
but if you give in then lisa and gang will kick your ass anyway.
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true, theres always two sides. But im being completely honest with everything. I still care for him...just obviously we were both confused on what was going on this past year....i guess.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:31:34 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:27:21 AM, frrrisky wrote:
it all goes back to morals and values. people that don't have the same as you do you will never get. they don't change and only drag you to their level. one thing i will say on his defense is that we only got your side of the story. he may have a different one.
but if you give in then lisa and gang will kick your ass anyway.
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here is a prime example of a lonely man giving relationship advice to someone else when he has no clue what the hell he's talking about.
why are you here?
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:34:35 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:34:35 AM, blackwidow wrote:
here is a prime example of a lonely man giving relationship advice to someone else when he has no clue what the hell he's talking about.
why are you here?
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it's called chatting. having a bad day today?
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:37:30 AM
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what happened to not wanting to "invade my space"....?
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:38:20 AM
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On 5/13/2008 9:38:20 AM, blackwidow wrote:
what happened to not wanting to "invade my space"....?
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drama... i'm outa here.
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Posted: 5/13/2008 9:39:48 AM
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